Tamar Braxton has decided to give her fans an update and some hope about her romance with Nigerian-born businessman David Adefeso.
The singer and reality TV star began dating Adefeso shortly after her divorce from her ex-husband and the father of her son, Vincent Herbert, but recently, she sent fans into a frenzy after she posted a cryptic message hinting at a split.
Braxton took to social media, where she appears to be referencing her relationship of almost two years.
She wrote: “If they don’t want you.there is no talking. No reasoning. Let it go and let God bring you the one who will be all that you need to accept all of you. Your flaws will not be your weakness, but it will be your strength and attraction to the one that is meant to be in your life.”
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Yesterday my @tamarbraxton , Beans and I hosted our first thanksgiving dinner as a family. My dynamic 80 year old mom, sister, brother-in-law and niece as well as more than 30 close friends of ours attended. We had a blast!!! It always amazes me to see how Tamar and my family took to each other from the moment they met back in Nigeria; they love her and she loves them right back. During dessert my mom stood up to speak and she called Tamar her daughter. I wasn’t surprised: my family took to Tamar’s gorgeous simile, deep kindness and infectious sense of humor almost as strongly as she took to my family’s deeply Christian, conservative, African roots. But what if my family hadn’t accepted her? As with a lot of African American families, many African parents and families tend to get too overly involved in their children’s relationships and married lives, often to the detriment of the young couple’s relationship (heck, I’ve seen some of my friends’ moms move into the couple’s home right after they got married, which so often makes life miserable for the daughter-in-law). I vowed that I would never put Tamar through the misery I’ve seen other couples go through with the man’s family. So I informed my family early on that they didn’t have a choice! They either love Tamar the way they love me and accept her the way I accept her….or they risk losing me completely. Needless to say, I needn’t have worried!! My mom treats Tamar like her 4th daughter (I have 3 sisters) and Beans like her 13th grandchild, my sisters cherish her the way they do each other, and my brothers adore my @tamarbraxton almost as much as I do. Welcome to the Adefeso family, Tamar!! I am so grateful and give thanks that God brought you and Beans into my life. A word to all the young, strong brothas out there who are in relationships with our beautiful black sistas: please stand up for your girl! Once you pick her she becomes your #1 in life; and she comes before the rest of your family: before your mom, sisters, and before even you!! And that’s how to keep a happy home! #happythanksgiving #godblessournewfamily ❤️❤️❤️❤️
After her fans went insane and started bashing Adefeso, Braxton explained that what she wrote was a “typo” and confessed that she is having a great week.
Tamar called the mogul the love of her life and explained: “It was in the middle of the night sis. We all have typos. Calm down. My week is starting off GREAT, and God is too good.”
One follower said Wendy Williams is trying to solve the mystery and added: “No, they didn’t. Wendy Williams said that Tamar didn’t answer or call her back, so that was never confirmed. Tamar just called David the love of her life a few hours ago. The blogs were trying to report on something that was never confirmed.”
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The last 20 months have been like a dream come true. Who would’ve guessed that two oceans would meet that one warm summer night in the Pacific and so quickly unite to form an unbreakable bond that gets so much stronger every day. Through every storm that forms the tide gets stronger, and each wave creates another indescribably memory that lasts a lifetime. Words can’t begin to describe how much I love you, my @tamarbraxton , but our memories may help in showing how many ways you complete me. Happy Valentines Day my love❤️. I love you completely❤️❤️🥰🥰❤️❤️
A second commenter added: “Exactly, she erased all her pictures of him, BUT he didn’t erase ANY of their pictures, they’re still together, they may just want folks to stay out of their business now, but again, they should’ve just kept THEIR lives together private, to begin with, and wouldn’t have to be going through this. When you give folks a glimpse into your life, it may Never be Enough, they may want more than what you’re willing to give, or you may want to keep giving just a tad bit more than you should so the more you give, the more some won’t, so just don’t give and learn to k6some things private. I still think they’re seeing one another and want the public out of their lives now, and this is their way of doing it without trying to hurt her fans’ feelings. Be real and tell them the truth; you now want your love life private.”
Braxton is full of surprises.